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Victor Noir

I follow a site called MessyNessyChic.com, and I recently discovered a post from 2015 which is perfectly suited to the subject of this blog.

Source: http://www.messynessychic.com/2015/09/17/the-x-rated-paris-grave/

Nessy has provided excellent photos and narrative so I’m not going to attempt to improve on her post (if that is possible).  Read it here



The Rose

Flowers in a cemetery are a common sight, and they are also a common engraving on gravestones, in particular, the rose.

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The rose represents love and purity and the brevity of life on earth.
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Life like a blooming flower is never meant to be permanent. The development stage of a rose indicates how old the deceased was at time of death. A bud is usually a child 12 or under; a partial bloom represents a teenager; and if it is in full bloom, the deceased died in the prime of life.

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Another symbol of the death of a young person is a broken rosebud. It symbolizes that life was cut short.

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A strong bond between two people (e.g., mother and child who died at the same time) is represented by two rosebuds joined.

Several rosebuds on the same branch signifies secrecy.

A rose and a poppy signify eternal sleep.

In death, the colour of the rose is significant although this is not something present in a cemetery.  A red rose represents martyrdom a Tudor rose is beauty, and a white rose symbolizes purity.

A wreath of roses can represent beauty or that the deceased was innocent and sinless.

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The following verse is popular in funeral prayer cards.

The Rose
A rose once grew where all could see,
Sheltered beside a garden wall.
And, as the days passed swiftly by,
It spread its branches, straight and tall.

One day, a beam of light shone through
A crevice that had opened wide –
The rose bent gently toward its warmth
Then passed beyond to the other side.

Now you who deeply feel its love,
Be comforted – the rose blooms there –
Its beauty even greater now,
Nurtured by God’s own loving care.

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